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The Power of Strategic and Mindful Transitioning  

I recently got off a Podcast interview (Sandcast), with a client of mine who is transitioning out of a professional Beach Volleyball career. 

The conversation was extremely insightful. 

(I will share it with you once he posts it) 

We talked about him transitioning out of elite sport into “what’s next?“. 

However, when it comes to “transitioning” (and doing it well), it applies to us all. 

Some transitions are more monumental. 

And some transitions are at the very basic daily level. 

For instance, I have worked with a lot of clients over the years who have been REALLY BAD at switching off from work when they get home

Essentially transitioning from “work mode” to “family mode“. 

Often it just doesn’t happen at all. 

Actually, you need to actively and consciously do something (let’s call it a mindful transition), to adapt most effectively to a new environment. 

How are you at “switching off” after work? 

The more monumental transitions might be – using a personal example – transitioning from being an Olympic Games bomb management expert and security consultant (working for the man, literally ;-)); to being a Life Coach in Bali, working for myself, and not really having much of an idea how to go about it. 

Regardless of the size or complexity of the transition, the way you do it matters. 

Even in yoga, there is conscious attention given to how you transition from one pose to another, because the yogis realised its importance.  

Which takes me to the key point of this conversation. 

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Choice consciousness Decision Making

A Cool Strategy o Break “Unhelpful” Patterns of Behaviour  

This strategy is both simple, yet powerful. 

It is also quite timely for the start of a New Year. 

Plus, I think it tops most “new year’s resolutions“, which many people might be working on (and already bombed on ;-)). 

The reason is – again – that it is SIMPLE

It is based on creating a singular point of focus, which encapsulates multiple different areas of your life. 

Which means, we are getting back to basics

You know I love to focus on BELIEFS, and this might be drilling even deeper. 

It is focusing on VIRTUES, which might already be stored – as potential information – in the water of every one of your 50 trillion cells. 

So, unlocking that information, from that many players (50 trillion), can have a pretty potent effect. 

And as I already said, the strategy to turn on the switch is pretty simple.

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Choice Perspective Success

How to Set Yourself Up to WIN Big in 2026

Once a month I will record a short 3-5 min video with a practical Tip, Tool, or Strategy. Today is the first edition, and is one of the most important (and simple) STRATEGIES that I teach all my private Coaching clients. It will improve your decision-making “RESULTS” by about 200%!

Enjoy. 

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Choice Decision Making Goal Setting Tips Growth Success Uncategorized

The hidden power of an Impossible Goal

It’s question time.

Who reading this likes reading “business” books? 

There might be a few hands up, but chances are most people would lean towards some good quality fiction before they buried their nose, and used up their precious time, on a business book. 

However, recently I read a (business) book, which I even prioritized over the very well-written and suspenseful fantasy fiction book I was reading. 

It turns out that the business book was REALLY well written. 

Focused on a theme I am infinitely fascinated with. 

It also challenged some of my current beliefs and teachings – which is always a great thing. 

Learning and growing (evolution) is one of the main games after all. 

The thing I also realised with the theme, was it could as equally apply to “PEOPLE”, as it did business. 

It caused me to take a good hard look at a few things I had been trifling with of late. 

The book in question is called “The Science of Scaling” by Dr Benjamin Hardy and Blake Erikson. 

(If you are a business owner or in senior management, I STRONGLY encourage you to read this book before you start the New Year).

These dudes were about scaling businesses. 

Where I am about “scaling” people

Taking them from Version 1.0 to Version 2.0 (which is not a linear transition but an exponential transition).  

Do you want to know what my biggest take-aways were? 

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Choice Confidence consciousness Growth Stress Success

How to Become The Person Who Doesn’t Get Taken Advantage of

The one thing we DO NOT want to do, when it comes to getting out of an emotional state of anger (or the likes) is to SUPPRESS our feelings of anger. 

We might have been taught this growing up. 

We might have even had parents who modelled the “stuff it down and hope it goes away” strategy; but I am here to tell you that is a super crappy strategy, which is sure to bite you on the butt at some point in the future.

And sometimes it bites HARD!!!

So, the first thing, not to do, is suppress your emotions. 

Probably in the same sort of vein – though maybe not as harmful – are ignoring the feeling, distracting yourself from the feeling, or numbing it out.

Again, these are all pretty substandard strategies. 

It (the icky emotion) might suck, but there is a lot of relevance to the saying “you need to feel to heal“. 

Which leads me onto my next big no-no. 

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Doing This Drains Your Energy and Equanimity

Once a month I will record a short 3-5 min video with a practical Tip, Tool, or Strategy. Today is the first edition, and is one of the most important (and simple) STRATEGIES that I teach all my private Coaching clients. It will improve your decision-making “RESULTS” by about 200%!

Enjoy. 

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Choice Decision Making Emotional Feeling

How To Feel Good

This “strategy” is pretty simple. 

And sort of easy to do. 

I say “sort of” as there may be times when is harder to do, and I want to be honest with you. 

And as old-matey Jim Rohn used to say: “What is easy to do, is also easy not to do“. 

So, although this is not so hard, most of time, it actually needs to be undertaken, in order to have the feel-good experience. 

This strategy is also free. 

It doesn’t require props.

And it creates a ripple effect. 

As in, in can make other people feel good too.

That’s pretty cool.  

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Choice consciousness Growth

Time to Get Clear About What Is In Your Control

Once a month I will record a short 3-5 min video with a practical Tip, Tool, or Strategy. Today is the first edition, and is one of the most important (and simple) STRATEGIES that I teach all my private Coaching clients. It will improve your decision-making “RESULTS” by about 200%!

Enjoy. 

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Choice Decision Making Growth

Like Oil And Water These Things Don’t Go Well Together 

As I suspect you know – I believe that it is the quality of our decisions that shape our destiny (which I even wrote a book on). 

The yogi’s – 100’s of years ago – also knew this. 

When considering the elements of the “mind” then understood that there was an Higher mind and a Lower mind. 

Somewhat similar to our conscious mind and unconscious mind, but not exactly. 

The yogi’s actually identified 4-parts of the mind. 

Which is similar to modern psychologists with their Triune Brain model. 

Although, I think the yogi’s had cooler sounding names.

The one I really like is the “Buddhi” part of mind. 

The higher mind. 

The one more closely connected to our individual (Purusha) and collective consciousness. 

I doubly love the idea of having a “sharpened” Buddhi

In modern language that would equate to a well-developed prefrontal cortex.

But the thing that most stands out for me (and was of primary interest to these yogi’s), was the power of DISCERNMENT

Seeing the big picture. 

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Choice Decision Making Growth Life Lessons

Making Assumptions About “Bad” Stuff

I am almost 100% certain, that you, like me, have done this before. 

And rather than me doing the big build up thing, let’s jump immediately into today’s topic. 

But just to make sure of my “almost 100% certain” assumption, let me ask you this.

Have you EVER labelled an event – at the time – as “BAD”, only to find out at a future date that it was probably one of the best things to ever happen to you

I am guessing you have. 

We all have. 

The next thing I am curious about is…

Exactly how many times do you think this has happened to you? 

Once? 

A few times? 

Or if you really think about it…a LOT!